Loving Yourself Means Loving Everyone: The Sacred Mirror of Humanity

"You Can't Be Free If You're Still Holding Someone Else Hostage In Your Heart"

What if I told you that your journey to self-Love is not complete until you’ve made peace with every soul who has walked beside you—even the ones who hurt you?

This might seem impossible. Maybe even outrageous. But the truth I was shown in Heaven is that we are not separate. We are not fragments. We are not meant to withhold Love from some and give it to others. To Love yourself fully is to Love everyone—because everyone is you.

We were created from the same Creator, made of the same components, lit by the same Divine spark. When I experienced Heaven during my near-death experience, I was shown this in the most profound way: there is no “other.” The very 'Structure of Love' that is our beginning holds no walls. It vibrates in total inclusion. And that means we are all part of the same body.

This doesn't mean we excuse harm. It doesn't mean we bypass pain. What it does mean is that we must recognize the hurt within another or others and step up as being the 'Advocate for Love' we were born to be and agreed to be. Sometimes difficult situations arise and our soul tells us to make a change. No matter how grueling the situation and I know some from experience and what others have shared with me, we need to not question 'How am I going to do this?' Instead, just make the movement forward and declare to the universe, 'This shit has got to change.' Whatever it is. In recognizing the situation as being anothers disconnection from Love, we reclaim our power to stay aligned with Love ourselves. You'll be so happy in the long run as you watch your life review where you are reminded of everything.

You can’t hold onto resentment and expect inner peace. Let that shit go because it will take you down. It did me with TTP-HUS, thrombotic thrombocytopenia purpura hemolitic uremic syndrome. It's a mouthful for sure when 90% of my body shut down. This is how I chose to learn in this life to quit holding myself hostage to what I can't change because it's already happened. I couldn't judge any longer the way in which I once had and somehow understand the full embrace of my own worth. Love can't be compartmentalized or separated. It just is.

It's impossible to be free if you are still holding someone else hostage in your heart.

The forgiveness isn't for them. It's for you, your mind, your life force. Because every drop of Love you withhold from another is a drop you are denying yourself.

When you finally make the choice to see everyone as the mirror they are you will notice some reflecting your ideals, and others reflecting what still needs healing. Then you begin to walk the path of the Sacred Self. This path only asks of you to be your authentic self. It's asking you to remember who you are. And you are Love.

So today, let that be your practice. Let the stranger, the ex, the family member, the neighbor, the person who never said sorry—all of them—be seen through the eyes of Love. I definitely didn't understand this when I got to Heaven in 2007. I asked God, "Why has my life been so difficult?" God told me at His table in Heaven, "You signed an agreement." I didn't believe Him because I couldn't understand what that meant. So God pulled the paper out showing me where I signed and what boxes I checked off. I said, "What the fuck was I thinking." To which God said, "You didn't want to reincarnate." This was when I learned about reincarnation the catholic church didn't teach me about. Bottom line is this: You don’t need to fix the ex, the neighbor, etc. You don’t need to agree with them. You just need to see them and accept them for what they are capable of at this time. If that's not aligned with your soul anymore, thank God for the clarity. That's your graduation. Now move on.

What I finally understand is that we are all being protected in that moment of realization. It's like a warning. We're being given the opportunity to put ourself or the other in check. Either way it's empowering. You are being asked by God to reevaluate where you are in that moment. It's your choice if you want to continue fighting a 'no win' fight, or if you can simply recognize your soul needs more than what that individual is capable of giving. There is nothing better you can do for them than to wish them Love. Because when you do, you return home to yourself—and you become the open channel through which Love flows unconditionally.

And that is the greatest healing of all.

Love,

Megan